Friday, January 20, 2017
Best Laid Plans Sometimes Go Awry
The guest house has been stocked with plenty of food and drink to keep me nestled in, with very few needs or wants. Well, except for this one thing. My kids have the most amazing ice making machine on their outdoor patio (you know that “Sonic” crunchy ice).
Yesterday, knowing Bryson would be at his golf lesson, and Mama was probably running errands, I snuck over to the main house for a refill. Front door was open and it was dark and quiet, so I knew the coast was clear. That’s when I made my way to the door through the kitchen to the patio. I heard a little something and looked down and there was Bryson in the kitchen chair playing a game on his iPod. He didn’t see me so I started quietly backing out of the room when Bentley (their dog) saw me and started to bark. Bryson turned around and said “Hi Nana. What are you doing here?“
Me: “I was sneeking in to get ice. I thought you were at your golf lesson!”
Bryson: “Nana, haven’t you been noticing the rain? We could swim on the course, but not golf.” I hadn’t noticed, obviously. “Nana, did you hear about me losing 5 teeth, yesterday?” I had heard – baby teeth that weren’t giving way to the big boys needing to come through.
Me: “Did the tooth fairy come to see you?”
Me: “How much?”
Me: “Well that’s what happens when five come out at the same time! I gotta’ go back to my chapel in the woods! I sure love you!”
Best laid plans sometimes go awry! My little scheme wasn’t earth-shaking when it went awry, but how many times do we make a plan, chart a course, set goals, cast vision, and even set out on a long-awaited dream-come-true adventure and something still goes wrong?
Most of those times, there are logical reasons beyond our control that keep us from our plans. Other times, it’s simply a matter of readjusting a schedule, and the plan can proceed. Quite frankly, changing the course or our mind is not a bad thing. Having to reconfigure doesn’t make us a flip-flopper. In fact, accepting that this change is for our good and God could be planning an even better outcome than what we had planned shows we' re flexible.
My husband and I had saved and planned for a 7-day cruise in the Southern Caribbean. We had been working hard and this would be a much-needed get away. We had even minimized our expenses by driving down to Galveston instead of flying there. The cruise started out magnificently, but on the 2nd night, after the Broadway Show, the ship came to a halt in the middle of the ocean. The lights flickered off and on and soon inexperienced cruisers were running for their life vests. This wasn’t our first cruise so we were confident that we would soon be on our way and we became encouragers to those very anxious travelers. As it turned out, the engine had caught on fire and there was no option but for the ship to be towed into the nearest port which was 150 miles from us. It was 24+ hours of trepidation for folks, discomfort (no-running water, so you can only imagine the rest room facilities), low on food – the next port was where they would be restocking), and it was too warm to stay in our cabins, so most all of the 1500+ cruisers were on the outer decks. Such complaining we heard, but all my husband and I could think “This is going to work out for our good!” And, sure enough – it did. Not only were we refunded this cruise in its entirety, but we were given a free 10 days cruise of our choice, for a future date, as well as airline tickets.
Labels: All things work together, best laid plans, chart a course, go awry, greyhound bus, leave the driving to us, psalm 37:23, readjust, Romans 8:28, scheme, set goals, tooth fairy
It was just "puppy love" that brought my Honey and I together at the ages of 13 and 12. We eventually married at the "mature" ages of 18 and 17. And that's when our faith journey began. Over the years, we encountered many opportunities to stretch our faith, especially when our babies were very sick, when financial situations were out of control, and when our marriage relationship had some rocky periods.But we made it through those times by our strong faith and trust in God. But never was our faith more challenged, than when my 63 years "young" husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 Kidney Cancer. Fortunately, the 44 years of marriage and faith-building experiences, caused us to "weather the storm", and still remain in peace and strong in our faith. This "peace that passed understanding" compelled me to blog and share the principles that caused our faith to be unwavering and continues to give me the joys of living large! I'm still here, so I'm not done!. I pray you will grow in your faith as you, not only read the blogs, but apply the principles to your own life -- for the good times, and especially for those times that seem so overwhelming.