I am being nostalgic as my youngest grandchild, Bryson, is embarking on his
last year of high school. I wrote this text message to my son and daughter:
"Good morning my loves. Sweet mama, I can imagine how you're feeling as
your last child and my last grandchild is heading out to his last high school
year. Oh my! Oh my! What a precious and sweet young man Bryson has been. I
tear up, just thinking about the sweetest of times with him. Now we get to
celebrate his manhood and being all that God has destined him to be and do. I
look forward to all the celebrations for him this year."
My son replied: "It's been a morning full of tears, but also of incredible
happiness celebrating the amazing journey our boy has had. We love you!”
Now to you, my friends, who are sending your kiddos off to school for the first
time or this is your last school year for your child. I encourage you they are
not going it alone. They are being sent off into God's loving arms that will
protect them and assure them of great success.
As long ago as it was, I remember my own "mama's heart". This photo
is of my two on their first day of school (first grade and third grade in
Cleveland, OK).
I wondered how they would handle a brand-new school and classroom with kids
they didn’t know and if they’d find a close “good” friend and not hang around
the wrong crowd. I wondered if they’d do well in their classes. Some of you may
be fretting about your prank-pulling middle schooler, earnestly hoping he doesn’t
make a habit of getting called to the principal’s office.
You may be stressing over academic concerns. “Will my struggling second grader
ever make progress in her reading? Will my high schooler graduate with honors,
or better yet, will my high schooler graduate?”
But more than all those “school days” concerns, we also long for our kids to be
spiritually and physically healthy. Long ago, in my children’s early years, I
found an antidote to worrying about my children in the story of Mary and Jesus.
Luke 2:52 mentions four areas Jesus grew in as a young boy: “And Jesus
increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and with people.”
Jesus grew wiser each year. He physically grew. His relationship with His
Heavenly Father continually strengthened. Jesus even gained favor with people
here on earth who saw Him day after day. And how I love the simple sentence
that precedes this: “His mother kept all these things in her heart.”
We never see Mary fretting and fussing, worried and anxious. She pondered about
her son and his growth, but she didn’t allow her mama heart to become rattled.
Let’s strive to be like Mary. Let’s turn our anxious thoughts into treasured
prayers, kept safe and held fast by our loving Father — the one who knows our
hearts and loves our children even more than we do.
When a concern pops up in our mind, let’s carry that concern to God. When we
start to fear for our child’s future, let’s petition the only one who knows
exactly what the future holds — THE ONE Who knows everything about everything.
When we turn our worries into our prayers, we’ll realize our children aren’t
the only ones being taught; we are learning life-long lessons in trusting and
treasuring, knowing God is in control.
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