In the Waiting Room of Advent

I've had my share of hospital waiting rooms -- waiting while a loved one is having surgery or for the birth of a baby. While we're waiting, a transformation is taking place in the operating room. Parts of the body that were diseased or broken are being removed or repaired or new devices or parts are being added to repair the body, or, joyfully, a precious baby is being birthed. Transformation happens while we're in the Waiting Room.

Today is the first Sunday of Advent and is very much like a "Waiting Room" where transformation is taking place. The first candle (the HOPE candle) will be lit on my church's Advent wreath. When we speak of Advent, we're referring to the four weeks before Christmas (the Waiting Room) when we prepare and anticipate Christ leaving heaven, coming to earth, being born of a virgin and dwelling among man. In a sense, a transformation is taking place because in the "Waiting Room" we are expectantly waiting and remembering our Lord and Savior's birth, as we reflect on God's prophecies and promises to His people.

When I was a child, I could hardly wait for Christmas. There was the anticipation of all the delightful surprises: the delicious baked goodies, reindeer movies, our Christmas tree, the Christmas program where we wore our best outfits and recited our little poems, being a character in the Christmas play, singing carols at church and school and, of course, the presents! We always opened our presents on Christmas Eve, but the grand finale was Santa’s delivery of the one big present on Christmas morning. I’ll never forget the year my big brother ruined Santa's magic when he was ho-ho-ho-ing and I saw him delivering Santa’s gift (my new Tiny Tears doll).

When my husband and I added to the nuances of Christmas the celebrating of the season of Advent, Christmas took on an even greater meaning to us. Each Sunday during Advent, a single candle is lit on the Advent wreath, one candle for the first Sunday, two for the next and so on. Then we sing "O Come, O Come Emmanuel," a hymn that expresses the longing of God's people for their Messiah. It is such a beautiful, intimate and holy time of HOPING and anticipating the Someone and something that transformed the lives of men and women everywhere.

The birth of Christ gives reminds us that we can live life in a radical way – the way of trusting, believing, and expecting that all He’s promised us is ours as we patiently wait for His perfect plan for our lives....in the Waiting Room. During this beautiful Advent season, may we find that place of loving and deepening our relationship with God – delighting in Him. It’s a radical way of living, but the infant in the manger, as sweet and mild as He seems, is our triumphant King of Kings and Lord of Lords. That precious baby grew up, and He sacrificed His life so that we can live a life of hope and great expectation every day.

May we let Him know how much we love Him and how much we desire our hearts to have a fresh revelation of Himself. May we all seek Him as the Wise Men once did and may we build in our children and grandchildren an excitement, not just for the arrival of a jolly old man in a red suit, but for the advent of the Savior of the world.

I wish you and your family a very blessed Advent and a very Merry Christmas. May the Lord bless you with an abundance of His love, His grace, and His presence. May He grant you the company of all those you hold dear and gift you, above all, with a greater measure of Himself. That's what I call the GIFT that just keeps on giving!

Advent - the Great Expectation that Something Good is Coming

It's the first Sunday of Advent. This photo of the Advent Candle wreath is from my church in Tulsa. The first candle (the HOPE candle) will be lit today. The word "advent" means a coming or arrival of something or someone extremely important. In biblical terms we speak of the Advent Season, referring to the four weeks before Christmas when we celebrate the Lord leaving Heaven and coming to earth to be born of a virgin and dwell among man. It's when we reflect on God's promises and prophecies to His people. And, it's a time of preparing our hearts in anticipation of the special day when we remember the birth of our Lord and Savior.

While enjoying the festivities -- sleigh bells, carols, chestnuts roasting, my Hallmark Christmas movies, parties, visits to see Santa, baking Christmas goodies, gift giving --pondering ADVENT, keeps us remembering that there is such greater reasons for this glorious season. It's about a better day, a better life, it's about HOPE.

The word, HOPE, means “the exciting expectation that something GOOD is about to happen”. Charles Dickens is well known for his book, “Great Expectations”. I love that optimism, but I love the reality of the absolute possibility that HOPE and expecting something good to happen, is a much better way to live than saying "Don't get your hope up, because you don't want to be disappointed if it doesn't turn out alright!" Ugh! What a dismal outlook. I prefer to live with hope, with GREAT EXPECTATIONS, for today and tomorrow.

Do you have your hope up and do you have great expectations for your life? It's like waiting for the birth of a child. We know it’s a process, and if we patiently wait for “the appointed time” of delivery, we’ll be blessed with a precious bundle of love and joy.
The beautiful season of Advent is about expecting and waiting. The birth of Christ gives us the hope, and possibility, that we can live life in a radical way – the way of trusting, believing, and expecting that all He’s promised us will be ours if we patiently wait for His perfect plan for our lives.

During this beautiful season, may we find that place of loving, caring and deepening our relationship with God – delighting in Him. It’s a radical way of living, but the infant in the manger, as sweet and mild as He seems, is really our triumphant King of Kings and Lord of Lords. That precious baby grew up, and He sacrificed His life so that we can live a life of hope and GREAT EXPECTATION.

Don’t give up! Keep your hope up! Get your EXPECTOR expecting! Remember ….. it’s a process! Your “baby” (your hopes, your dreams) will get here….and you’ll soon be blessed with God’s bundles of love and joy.

“Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4