When God's Timing Seems So Slow

We’re counting the minutes, hours, days and now weeks. For some of us, we're three weeks into this time of isolation. And we keep asking “How much longer?” Only to hear "At least through April 30th!" That’s not surprising God at all. He’s been listening to us ask those questions long before this pandemic. “When will this baby get here?” “When will my job promotion come?" “When will my financial breakthrough come through?” So, it’s not surprising God at all that we wonder when our lives will get back to normal again.

Before this pandemic, I was driving to an appointment – running a little late. I had to come to a screeching "slower than molasses" speed. A covey of bicyclers were ahead of me on a two lane road and they had no intention of getting into a single line so that other vehicles could pass them. Mind you, they were going at record speed for bicyclers, but not to the speed this pistol-packin'-mama needed them to go. After all, I had things to do, places to go and people to see!

Once my patience was stretched to its limit, I completely lost it and started yelling, “Hurry! Hurry!” Good news. They didn't hear me. My impatience didn’t speed up the procession at all. How many times have we approached God’s timing the same way? Like right now. But God isn’t bound by time. He rarely operates at a pace that pleases us because we want the answer, the problem solved, the check in the mail, the baby arrived, and all other matters – to hurry, hurry, hurry!

But God's perfect timing....is well....perfect. We might as well just breathe because, in God’s perfect timing, we’ll be right where He planned for us to be. Remember Sarah, Abraham's wife? She had trouble with God's timing. Not with bicyclers or donkeys in her road, but a 25-year wait for the baby God had promised her (Genesis 12-21). We know how she took matters into her own hands by giving her maidservant Hagar to her husband, and the two of them had a child. Even our modern-day television dramas don’t hold a candle to what ensued! It turned out “helping” didn’t help, and the promise still wasn’t fulfilled.

But, in God's perfect timing, Isaac, the child who God had promised 25 years before, was born. God was not late. God called Isaac's birth-day "the appointed time." (Genesis 18:14) "Appointed” means “predetermined; arranged; set.” Isaac’s birth came at the exact time God had planned all along!

Perhaps we all hear our own unbelief and questions about God’s timing? I hear mine. "When will this be over, Lord? Aren’t You just a little late? " God may seem like a covey of bicyclers in the road, slowing down our plans and our dreams, but He knows the entirety of our story from beginning to end. He also knows how our story weaves into the lives of others. We may be tapping our watches, but He is never late. He may seem slow, but He’s always right on time. God Himself holds the appointed time in His hands.

For all who are disappointed about delayed weddings, missed proms, vacations, interrupted plans, remember God's ways are higher than our ways and "Oh, the plans He has for you. Plans to prosper you and not harm you, to give you a hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11. We can relate with each other on the waiting part and we can relate with each other on the impatience part, too, but let’s stand together in confident hope! God is faithful, and we can rely on His perfect timing. Though it's not easy in this wait, we can trust in Him and rely on His ways, His thoughts and His perfect timing.

It Takes Two

Day 86 of Photo Inspirations -- It Takes Two
I saw this sweet family and had to take a photo of them.  I knew it would provide another photo inspiration.  And it did.  A bicycle built for two, but one of the two is a little person.  What great family bonding time!  Imagine the memories those kids will have of the great outdoors, such a beautiful day, getting great exercise and having Mom and Dad all to themselves. And, for the Mom and Dad, there’s no greater therapy for relieving a week of stress and perhaps overwhelming circumstances, than hanging with their kids.

And I have sweet memories, too, of my kids and grandkids getting their first bikes, eventually taking the training wheels off and then watching them tackle it all alone.  Yes, there were a few bumps and bruises along the way, but they finally conquered their bicycling challenges with persistence and determination.

I thought about the similarities between life and a bicycle.  This was a bicycle built for two and it really takes sets of two to make a bicycle work:  two wheels, two pedals, two brakes, two legs to push the pedals and two hands to control it.  It’s a perfect example of “It takes two”!

The front wheel of a bicycle provides direction and the rear wheel provides the drive.  In life, we need someone who provides us with inspiration and direction, and who pushes us with the right drive, especially when we’re venturing out into the great unknown.  I am so grateful that I had a partner for many years and we provided that direction and drive for each other. Though I’m single now, I’ve learned so much about my dependence on THE Director and Driver that keeps me balanced as I ride my “life” bicycle and Who constantly inspires me to push on and pedal harder.  There are hills that require pedaling harder, but, oh the joy I receive when the slopes come and I can relax on the way down.

In life, we’ll go through some tough times and we’ll encounter situations where it takes every bit of energy we can muster to make it through, but how sweet it is when we pedal on to that place where we soon can coast and enjoy the ride.  And, it’s quite essential to know when to slow down and come to a complete stop – applying the brakes when “enough is enough”.  When we do that, it’s the perfect time to “BE STILL and KNOW HE is God”.  In that stillness, we hear Him giving us great wisdom for the next adventure we’ll be on.  He’ll tell us the best roads to take, the right amount of air pressure we need in our tires, the tension needed in our steering system, and the sweetest sights to see along the way.  Yes, it does TAKE TWO!