Monday, January 16, 2017
Fair Weather is for Sissies
In sports, the term "fair weather fans" refers to those who have some interest in the team, but they want nothing to do with them when tough times occur. As soon as the team starts to turn things around and starts winning, they act as if they been there through thick and thin.
So here we are after NFL playoff weekend. I segued from my “Seek and Find” time with God (my month-long hiatus), gave Him the hand sign for “Time Out” and watched our family’s two favorite teams: Seahawks and Cowboys play in their playoff games. I’m sure God didn’t mind – He was watching His two favorite teams, too! Juuuust kidding!!! Oh the highs and lows, ups and downs, fair weather and foul weather of watching our teams play. The celebrations when we’re up and the pits in the stomach when we’re losing. Our teams lost, but what a great year it's been! I wondered: “Is it worth it to get all caught up in favorite teams and their games? Wouldn’t it be a better option to be a “Fair Weather Sports Fan” and a “Fair Weather Pilot”? No risks, no worries, safe zones, easy-going, no need for Rolaids, and just be able to live life in the comfort zone of “going with the flow”? But, then again, what a shame it would be to miss potential records being set, our teams winning THE BIG ONE, and being a co-winner with them!
Have you failed at something you so wanted to win at? Did others scorn you for taking a risk.....and, indeed, it was a loser? Have you wished you could step out in faith and become adventurous, but you kept hearing voices that said, "Give up!" "Throw in the towel!" "It's too risky!" "You could lose everything!" "Play it safe!"
Here’s the deal: even the best-laid plans don’t always work out! That’s a reality we all face every day. So how should we live when we’re not sure how things are going to turn out? In Ecclesiastes 11, King Solomon says, “Don’t play it safe—take risks.” In other words, we should live confidently because we have a "No limits" God. We shouldn't avoid being blessed because of the concerns that come with them. We shouldn't say, “I can’t get married. What if difficult struggles come up between me and my mate?” Or, “I can’t have children. What if I'm not a good parent?" Or, “I can’t go for that business opportunity. What if I fail at it?” Or, “I can’t use my savings for that dream trip we’ve always wanted. What if our car breaks down or we have a health crisis and we need that money?”
All those "What ifs" are "Fair Weather" attitudes that keep us complacent and settling for the status quo. No risks – no glory! Life is really about the thrill of the hunt, the expectations of victories and celebrations of wins and even the loses. When we take a deep breath, and hang in there for the highs and lows, and the ups and downs, we’ll be guaranteed a life of grand adventures. Yes, we may get sweaty palms, white knuckles, indigestion, and even some bumps and bruises, but then we remind ourselves, God knows the outcome of the weather so we might as well throw our hands up in the air and enjoy the thrills that await us on this exciting ANY weather ride!!
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It was just "puppy love" that brought my Honey and I together at the ages of 13 and 12. We eventually married at the "mature" ages of 18 and 17. And that's when our faith journey began. Over the years, we encountered many opportunities to stretch our faith, especially when our babies were very sick, when financial situations were out of control, and when our marriage relationship had some rocky periods.But we made it through those times by our strong faith and trust in God. But never was our faith more challenged, than when my 63 years "young" husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 Kidney Cancer. Fortunately, the 44 years of marriage and faith-building experiences, caused us to "weather the storm", and still remain in peace and strong in our faith. This "peace that passed understanding" compelled me to blog and share the principles that caused our faith to be unwavering and continues to give me the joys of living large! I'm still here, so I'm not done!. I pray you will grow in your faith as you, not only read the blogs, but apply the principles to your own life -- for the good times, and especially for those times that seem so overwhelming.